Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Couples and Family Constellations


For the theory of Bert Hellinger, called, Family Constellations, refers to a systemic therapy that addresses transgeneracionles problems that can affect the life today of a member of the family system. Regarding couples, the author talks about how men and women that we develop and we both female part of the mother and the male parent.

In the book, Happiness Dual Gunthard Weber, Bert Hellinger talks about this important process for the consolidation of relationships. Every human being has both male and female properties because we are a part of the mother and one father.

To make us truly men and women, the process begins with the mother, ie maternal're in the area given the fragile condition of our birth. Men can not stay in the female sphere, they have to travel the road to the father and make him the strength, virility, manhood and give to the female of the mother. The same goes for women, need to resign to be in the area of ​​male and renounce the parents and then take the strength, life and the feminine in their mothers.

Once, men and women have taken the same for both, then you are ready for a life partner, that seen from family constellations, the couple is done when a child's father evenly with a daughter of the mothers and only thus can complement each other. Taking his wife's feminine and masculine women taking their partner.

When he stays within the sphere of the mother is unable to assess your own partner, and therefore an imbalance in this pair. Similarly, if the daughter remains in the realm of the father, you're probably underestimating your partner, not recognizing their masculinity.

Both partners can not sustain a proper relationship, because his soul and his eyes are in their areas of origin. Hellinger's greatness is that he has managed to unravel the hidden and unconscious dynamics of these relationships. And so, as systemic therapy can bring order to heal the systemic entanglements and emotional ties to lead a healthier life and functional.

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