Women In Love

A personal story: "I? Adam, "You? Eve

Okay. The relationship ended, but the decision was not in his hands and, therefore, at this point you may be wondering if the female verdict is irreversible. You may feel anger, grief, guilt, nervousness, insecurity, resentment, as is normal when the result is not desired.

This cluster of feelings that come to a breakup depends very much on the causes of the outcome. It is at this stage of the relationship when casting blame in silence, preferably late at night where sleep becomes a thing of the past. Have not yet, remember that only people happily forgetful sleeps peacefully.

Now it is utterly alone in this intimate time with a heavy heart and stomach knot made useless speeches are tested will never say face to face, because a conversation between two people in conflict, which will certainly sooner or later so - never be as in the trial. Both love and heartbreak makes us very unpredictable.

At this moment, that you can experiment with all the anguish and frustration as possible, the best thing to do is spend the free time you now have more than enough to arm the account of his personal history with this woman who wants to recover. That is, you need seriously and to remember back to top, or the stage of physical attraction.

Think about the first time he saw her. Remember how you felt, what she found she did come, if this were the case, or not always respond to subtle provocations of his "Eve? modern.

Then re-live the desire, these first exchanges of glances, kisses, touches, and so forth. Recreate in the depths of his being anything that led him to take the first step. And then bury it because the problem was never there, although it is essential to bring it up because it will reduce negative emotions, however logical product of despair that now oppresses you.

After recharging encouragement, learn the first lesson: The causes of the rupture have at least two points of view - because they will have to deal ahead of the possible influences of others, ie "noise? surrounding the partner and, although not the origin of evil, it may affect the stability of the relationship.

Yes, very true, the reasons that men can be attributed to the problem are not necessarily the same that led the woman to let go of a loved one, especially because we always tend to speak in figurative language.

To understand me better, women believe that everything is a metaphor in this life being so we do not care what we say but how you tell us. We look for hidden messages, interpret tone of voice, gestures, looks. We love decode the word male, but not because I do not know how we learned to think like men. In short, we give the task of "finding a three-legged cat.

The worst part is that we make the mistake, not you, to believe that man will know how to interpret each coded message sent in response, what is commonly expect a reaction from her that, not given, is interpreted as indifference, coldness, selfishness typical manly.

Although this reason alone need not necessarily be the reason for separation is enough to add fuel to the fire when there are other records, some of which may be severe and difficult to compensate its effects.

To speak with all frankness, infidelity, lack of generosity to invest not only time but money-it depends on the type of woman, an aspect which we shall immediately-achieved poor communication, because in addition to you give them to speak only when strictly necessary, the interest in "hobbies? different-for example, a day of fishing with friends and beer, versus an exhaustive in-mall and lies everyday, however harmless they may seem, are factors that must be acknowledged before starting the process of reconquest.

So think very well what you could have made for the relationship to a halt. Have started the count and considers that it should save the details because if something we women do not we forget anything. Be very careful here, with respect to the memory I'm afraid we do not win.

Once you are satisfied with this reconstruction of events is ready to take the next step: to analyze what kind of woman you want to retrieve. Because you also have to understand that, apart from being different from men, not all are equal. Need more complicated yet? Way! Nothing read on ...